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Dirty Dating Is Like Dirty Dancing

Dirty dating is really not so extreme. It's for people who deep down want sex but aren't maybe willing to call a spade a spade. So they talk of dirty flirting and this kind of thing, when really they want to shag, and they want to shag now! Anyway, we've got no problem with that. Remember the movie Dirty Dancing? It was all about passion erupting from a repressed girl and a flamboyant ladies' man of a dancer. But it was socially acceptable back then to package this up and present it with innuendo - but in many ways it was an extremely daring movie. And this is something about MySexHookups that we love: it's for everyone. It's only as boundary-pushing as you want it to be. If you just like a dirty chat partner or someone to meet for a dirty hookup, you can find that person here. Not all our members are committed shagaholics! Some just sign in occasionally for a bit of excitement and a sexual partner that is easy-going and laidback.

How To Check If You Are Dirty

One question that comes up often from our newer members is, 'how do I know if I'm dirty enough to use the site?' Ok, first things first, you don't need to prove anything to yourself or anyone else! We want people to feel relaxed here and that's the essence of what we stand for. Some members, though, feel very self-aware and write to us saying 'I never saw myself going on dirty dates', and talking of shame or a lack of confidence. This really breaks our heart. Sex is a wonderful thing, and not feeling sexy or sexually exciting is something no one should experience. Anyone can be sexy - it's more about state of mind than looks. I once dated a girl who had model looks. She was slim, had blonde hair and blue eyes, and generally got hit on everywhere went. But she had very little sex appeal because she was so dull in the bedroom. She lacked the spark that other girls I've been with had. They were nowhere near as good-looking as her, but they excited me mentally so much more. And herein lies the secret: magnetism is about feeling good in your own skin. About letting go and not giving a toss what other people think. Try it for a week and you'll see what we mean. MySexHookups is the perfect place to work on your dirty side, as everyone is so welcoming!